Sunday, 12 July 2009

To Wii or not to Wii


All you hear about these days is how bad it is for a child to be stuck indoors watching TV or on the computer, however I am going to beg to differ and argue that there are some fantastic reasons kids should be allowed to both view TV and play computer games.
First of all, look at the literacy skills a child learns when on the computer. My son is not even 5 but because of his stubborness to want to play certain games on CBBC and other sites he has learnt to read and understand instructions. I don't see this as a bad thing. Also I have seen my son's concentration span increase ten fold. Being a pushy Jewish mum I have tried to sit with Josh after school and help him with his ABC and reading, but he refuses, yet let him surf the net and he will sit for ages reading, concentrating and interacting.
Then we come to the Wii...probably the best invention of a computer game so far. Boy has it helped improve Josh's coordination which I have to say was a little like mine, useless! He doesnt sit aimlessly clicking a little button, he is running back and forth, planning moves and learning a healthly thirst for competition.
Do I think that we can compare our children's childhood to that of our own or that of our parents generation. No, our kids are growing up in a completely different world and need to be armed with the suitable skills to compete in today's society and the computer age it is. I will never let Josh sit at home all day and night on the Net or Wii instead of playing with his friends, doing after school clubs and completing his traditional homework, but neither will I discourage his thirst to learn the technological advances of today.
So, does this make me an irresponsible mum???

Thursday, 9 July 2009

Buggy Hell.....

This one is for Denise!!!
After trying to decided if I should stock buggies or not on Kiddycat I got into a conversation with my friend Denise. We both agreed that buying buggies is one of those products, that no matter what, a mother remains adament about - their buggy is the best and if anyone has a bad word about a buggy and wants to warn a new mum against it, they just won't listen.
A buggy for a new mother seems to be like a BMW for a man although I have to say BMWs do generally deliver the comfort they promised!
How many mum's do you see struggling to fold up their extremely large pram with the baby dangled somehow in one arm and the buggy in the other? I now realise how stupid I look attemting to lift my lump into the boot and trying my hardest not to sctrach the car.
yes, I am another of these who jus wouldn't listen. And who wouldn't I isten to? MYSELF! Jadon isn't my first child, I made the mistake of an overly large pram the first time round. I used Joshua's pram for all of 3 months, each time suffering to lift it, but of course Joshua was comfortable. So yet again when Jadon was born I went for a slightly smaller model which just so happens to be the biggest load of rubbish ever. Did I bother attempting to lift it and fold it in the shop? NO. Did I consider the room it would take in the car? NO. And will I admit my mistake and get rid of that damned thing? NO. I have paid my money and no matter what I will use it and suffer in silence like all those other mums.
For anyone that will listen....Please be realistic when choosing your pram/buggy. If you need to fold it daily then don't waste your money on a large one.
Go to a shop and try all of the options out. Go back and try again on another day to make sure you have made the right decision, then go and search online for the cheapest shop to actually purchase it...
Kim
http://www.kiddycat.co.uk (we dont sell prams or buggies yet)